How many 'true loves' to you get in a lifetime?

When I say true love, I mean... someone you are with that you feel - yes, they are the one.

I'm not sure how many you get, but I know it is rare to come across one. Many people spend their whole lives, hoping to bump into or meet their perfect one. I believe that perfect is an individual definition. Perfect encapsulates all flaws in the opposition, but yet you are still willing to embrace and love them for who they are.

And what happens when you find the one but the timing isn't right?

Do you believe that.... time will converge your path together later in the future?

I don't.

I honestly believe that it is now or never. Maybe this is because of my pessimistic view on change. I have seen what change can do to people, do to couples. The choices we make in our daily lives changes our paths constantly, moulding our individual paths.

But hey, maybe some couples are lucky. Maybe for some couples... their paths are so similar, that even a little divergence will still lead them together once again. For me, not quite the same. We both lead separate lives, we have separate wants and needs...

Maybe this will draw us further apart.