ok. so i was watching neighbours while eating
and yknow...... IF YOU'VE BEEN WATCHING NEIGHBOURS
NED (mighty fine) and his ex gf are like stuck cos their car broke down
can't get to party..
so they dnm.
they talk about their past.. how there was a misunderstanding.. when in fact
this and this and this happened.
so his ex gf does the talk..
' can u imagine, what if we had worked it all out.. we would be so great right now '
(ps. i hate that girl, terrible acting skills and i hate her character)
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ok so here's the thing.
the 'what if' talk, the 'what if' thought...
fucks people up - seriously.
like, when i mean it stuffs people up
some like to go off and do something totally irrational to make themselves feel better
doesn't change a thing, and most likely - will not make you feel better
too much pondering.
'what if' i studied that much harder
'what if' i had treated her better
'what if' i didn't binge on so much alcomahol~
life... life, is about choices.
the choices we make, determine who we are
how strong our willpower is.
how much we're willing to put in
how much we will gain in the end
contemplating on how we could have made it better, to make the situation we are in - better?
it's all about getting your head around it
acknowledging mistakes, but heading towards a new beginning
regrets... we all have. focusing on the what if's is a waste of time
because what's important right now, is the what is.
*
went out to yumcha w/ the relliess
major chitchat w/ connieee~
its'all good :)
went to loc's and bought him cake
yeah - need to start work
miss my bb
rach called, miss her too lol :)
end.
1 comment:
wish i was 'mighty fine'... pssh.
lol@thewhat'if'ppl. been there, done that. cant lie but admit that i sometimes will keep doing that but so long 2things are clear.
1. that indeed, doing that totally screws you over.
2. because you know it screws you over, you should seriously stop what you are doing and thus further accentuate and appreciate what 'is'. =)
what i try to do... is cancel all the potential 'what ifs'. I try to make sure that my actions reflect what i am, and hence i wont have any regret... its bad to live a life spending your time thinking 'what if' seriously.. it kills motherfuckers. [quote eddie murphy].
at yumcha, did you do that thing you always do with your brother when you guys order that specific dumpling.. haguaw? i think? you know...?? =P i thought of that when you first told me u went yum cha this morning.
i hope you've been doing HEAPS of work since i've gone to tkd tonight. i'll give you a lil more time to finish off whilst i.. deno, maybe update or.. not? lol. deno. i might rant a bit. like i am ranting here in this comment box.
ttus love. xoxo =)
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