have you ever noticed...
what you worry about?
what stresses you out and can't make you sleep at night?

is it work? is it relationships? is it the question of life? or yourself?

i believe for a person to fully gain inner strength, you have to.. you must
worry about all these four things. if you don't stress about work - you may well be moving ahead with relationships in your life, but you are clearly not moving on with the society... hence, you'll be bogged down once you come to realise there are so many people who have done so much with their lives, and here you are with the puppy dog eyes giving them the admiration. ambition is important.

if you don't stress about your relationships you have around you.. well, you're going to lose a big part of yourself too. humans need to be loved, humans need to be accepted. if you find that you are all for selfishness and the satisfaction of your own benefits.. well, you'll realise you'll have all the glory you wanted.. but no-one to share it with. humans don't like to be lonely - we don't like to admit it... but it is absolutely true. true to the core.

for the last two... if you don't worry over yourself, or that you don't worry over life - you're in trouble too. trying working at a superficial level and simultaneously not giving anything back to yourself. you have to be a LITTLE selfish. if you just let yourself slip and continue to conform with society... without realizing what you're doing - you have become a sheep. a person with no views is a disaster. a person who constantly follows other's views.. well, that's disaster x2.

i'm all for originality - once it has been proven that there is such thing is originality. there is no such thing as originality.. and even if there is, it shouldn't even be important. people constantly steal off each other - humans work that way. individuality on the other hand, is about mixing these so called ideas, creating different combinations according to your own morals, values and beliefs

ok i'm done.